How to teach your child to protect themselves — without fear, with practice and age-appropriate explanations
😰 The Question That Keeps Parents Awake at Night
“What if one day I’m not there — and my child won’t know what to do?”
You can’t be with your child 24/7. 🏫 They go to school. 🏡 Play outside. 📱 Use the internet.
And one day they may face a situation where their reaction will determine everything.
The question isn’t if it happens. The question is — will they be ready?
❗ Why Children Get Into Dangerous Situations
Not because they’re stupid. Not because they’re disobedient.
👉 Because no one taught them.
A child doesn’t know that:
📘 This E-BOOK is a clear instruction on how to equip your child with knowledge that can save their life.
🎁 What You’ll Get Inside the E-BOOK
✅ 7 safety rules with full explanations
For each rule: 👶 What to explain to your child — in simple words 🎯 How to explain by age — scripts for ages 4–6, 7–10, 10+ 🎭 Practice — exercises, role-play, real-life checks 👨👩👧 For parents — what you need to do
🛡️ The 7 Rules from the E-BOOK
🛡️ Rule #1: Never Go Anywhere with Strangers
What to explain to your child:
A stranger is ANYONE your parents don’t know
Even if they know your name — they’re still a stranger
Even if they say “your mom sent me” — always check first
🚫 Phrases your child should NOT respond to:
“Your mom is in the hospital, I’ll drive you”
“Help me find my kitten”
“Want candy / to see puppies in my car?”
“I’m your parents’ friend”
📘 In the E-BOOK: Age-based explanations + role-play + a family code word system
🛡️ Rule #2: Scream. Run. Tell.
What to explain:
If someone grabs or scares you — you CAN and SHOULD scream 🗣️
Running away is not cowardice — it’s smart 🏃
You must tell an adult — even if you’re embarrassed or “promised to keep quiet”
🔑 Key phrase: 👉 “Good adults NEVER ask children to keep secrets from their parents.”
⚠️ Problem: Children are taught to be quiet and polite.
📘 In the E-BOOK: How to train your child to shout “This is NOT my dad! Help!”
a list of safe places to run to
🛡️ Rule #3: Your Body Belongs Only to You
What to explain:
There are private parts (covered by swimsuit/underwear)
No one is allowed to touch them or show theirs
Exception: a doctor with parents present, if needed for health
🔑 Key phrases:
“If someone touches you where they shouldn’t — it’s NOT your fault”
“You can always say NO to an adult if it’s about your body”
“A bad secret makes you feel scared or uncomfortable”
👨👩👧 For parents: Don’t force hugs or kisses with relatives — it teaches that a child’s “no” doesn’t matter.
📘 In the E-BOOK: How to talk about this safely + why using correct anatomical terms matters
🛡️ Rule #4: Know This by Heart
Every child should know:
🧾 Their full name and parents’ names 🏠 Home address 📞 Mom’s or dad’s phone number ❓ What to do if they get lost ⚠️ Common problem: Parents think the child knows — but they don’t.
📘 In the E-BOOK: Songs & games to memorize info
what to do if lost in a store
bracelet / pocket-note life hack
🛡️ Rule #5: The Internet Is NOT a Safe Place
What to explain:
People online can pretend to be anyone 🎭
Never send photos or videos (especially without clothes)
Never share address, school, or where you hang out
🚩 Online red flags:
Asks for photos
Says “this is our secret”
Asks not to tell parents
Wants to meet in real life
🔑 Golden rule: Never punish your child for telling you — or next time they’ll hide it.
📘 In the E-BOOK: Age-based explanations + parental controls
real grooming schemes (for ages 10+)
🛡️ Rule #6: Fire, Electricity, Water Are NOT Toys
What to explain: 🔥 Matches & lighters — don’t touch ⚡ Sockets — don’t put fingers or objects inside 🌊 Water (bath, pool, river) — dangerous, never go alone
🔥 What to do in a fire:
Get out (don’t hide!)
Close the door behind you
Don’t grab things
Call 112
🔑 Key phrase: “If something breaks or catches fire — tell an adult first. You will NOT be punished. Safety comes first.”
📘 In the E-BOOK: How to show seriousness without fear + actions for different scenarios
🛡️ Rule #7: Trust Your “Inner Signal”
What to explain:
You have an inner guard — a feeling when something is wrong
Fear or discomfort = a signal 🚨
You can leave even if it feels “impolite”
🔑 Key phrases:
“If your stomach feels bad and you want to run — listen to it”
“Politeness is NOT more important than safety”
“You don’t have to be nice to someone who scares you”
“If it feels wrong — it is wrong”
📘 In the E-BOOK: How to teach children to recognize their signals permission to say NO to adults
✅ Safety Readiness Checklist (from the E-BOOK)
Is your child really prepared? 🛡️
☐ Knows their full name and home address 🏠 ☐ Knows parents’ phone numbers by heart 📞 ☐ Knows the family code word 🔐 ☐ Can shout “HELP!” loudly (practice this!) 🗣️ ☐ Knows the rules about private body parts 🚫 ☐ Knows what to do if they get lost 🧭 ☐ Understands internet dangers 🌐⚠️ ☐ Knows they can tell you ANYTHING without punishment ❤️
👉 If 2 or more boxes are unchecked — this E-BOOK is for you.
📄 Format & Use
📑 Format: E-BOOK, 50+ pages ⏱️ Reading time: 50–70 minutes 🔁 How to use: Learn → Talk with your child → Practice → Repeat regularly
🎯 The Core Principle of the E-BOOK
Don’t scare — equip.
🚫 You will NOT find here:
Scary stories that traumatize children
Panic messages like “the world is dangerous, trust no one”
A healthy balance between caution and trust in the world
👨👩👧 This E-BOOK Is for You If:
✅ Your child is 4–12 years old ✅ You want to teach them how to protect themselves ✅ You don’t know how to start this conversation ✅ You want exact words and exercises, not vague advice ✅ It’s important to prepare — not scare — your child
🚫 This E-BOOK Is NOT for You If:
❌ You think “this would never happen to my child” ❌ Your child is under 4 (too early for most rules) ❌ You want one talk for a lifetime (safety is a skill — it needs practice)
❓ FAQ
“Will these talks scare my child?” 😟
No — if done correctly. This E-BOOK follows the rule “equip, don’t scare.” You don’t tell horror stories — you give tools. Just like teaching road safety: rules, not car crashes 🚦
“I have two kids of different ages — will it work?”
Yes 👍 The E-BOOK covers ages 0–12, clearly divided by age. You’ll find answers for both children.
“At what age should we start?” 👶
From age 4: basics (strangers, code word, name–address–phone)
From 6–7: body safety and internet rules
From 10+: deeper, more detailed discussions
The E-BOOK includes phrases for every age.
“Is one conversation enough?” 🔁
No. Safety is a trainable skill. Talk → check in a month → repeat. The E-BOOK shows how to build this in without nagging.
“What if my child already knows all this?” 🤔
Test it. Ask for the phone number — can they recall it? Ask them to shout — can they do it loudly?
Many children “know” in theory — but freeze under stress.
🔄 Transformation
🎁 Get the E-BOOK Now
“WHAT EVERY CHILD SHOULD KNOW”
7 Safety Rules That Save Lives
📄 E-BOOK, 50+ pages ✅ All 7 rules explained clearly ✅ Age-based wording: 4–6, 7–10, 10+ ✅ Practical exercises & role-play ✅ Child readiness checklist ✅ Family code word system